Or maybe you're not?
Maybe you've never even considered tying the knot yourself, but have been to enough Irish weddings to know a thing or two about what makes a decent big day.
Maybe you've been a bridesmaid more times than you can count on two hands. Or you're a petrified best man who has exactly 96 hours to wrangle together some sort of half decent speech to deliver at a wedding this weekend (if that's the case, stop reading this now and head over to our Speeches section STAT).
Maybe you're a couple of hopeless romantics, who love to spend your free evenings browsing through gorgeous big day details that others have done so well, or are the trend setters of your crew, looking for the latest wedding venue that none of your pals have been to yet.
Whatever you're here for, THEVOW.ie is here for you as you try to navigate the world of the modern Irish wedding.
In a nutshell, THEVOW.ie is the new home for weddings on our parent site Independent.ie. It's a place full of fashion and style, advice, information and inspiration, and it's your home for all the latest in celebrity nuptials - both at home and abroad.
But what we want most for THEVOW.ie, is to become the home of Irish weddings; the home of your big day. A place where couples, guests and well-wishers can come to have their say, get great advice, find the latest in Irish wedding fashion, and share their own love stories.
By showcasing some of the most beautiful real weddings in the country, we hope to inspire and advise those who have yet to tie the knot, and help them to find their perfect suppliers for their big day.
Most importantly we want to hear from you.
We want to know what you want to see on your perfect wedding website and we want you to share your photos, videos, thoughts and opinions on everything to do with the big day.
To get in contact, mail firstname.lastname@example.org or follow us on Facebook or Instagram. Hashtag #THEVOW in your Insta wedding snaps and don't forget to keep an eye out for some of the great competitions we have lined up over the next few weeks.